MEAN WORDS ARE TRAUMATIC

9:14 AM

“The woman who follows the crowd will usually go no further than the crowd.

The woman who walks alone is likely to find herself in places no one has even been before”

-Albert Einstein-

Seems like ages since my last post and I need to apologize for that. I am really sorry for my long absence. Probably I just needed a little break from everything. Now I feel like I am back to normal and start blogging again. It’s kind of funny how time flies so fast. I’ve been so busy as of late that I was barely able to feel October! With the numerous personal challenges flung my way, I am not complaining, I am grateful because October had been awesome to me but right now I’m hoping that November will be less toxic. And of course it was only a matter of time before the uber important question of “WHEN WILL YOU UPLOAD YOUR RECENT CAMPUS LOOK” would rise. Well, today I am not going to post my recent campus look, these photos below were actually taken a long time ago which is why my hair still purple here. However, this is my campus look :)

Anyway, speaking about hair, I prefer to have colorful hair for a long time and four month ago, I finally dyed my hair for the first time, dark green turquoise was my first choice. Of course, I asked my mom’s permission before I change my hair color into two-toned hair, luckily, she lets me to do it as long as I keep my hair as healthy as possible, even when I changed my hair became three-toned hairs, I did it at my sister’s salon in Balikpapan. Well, it’s good to know that I am having such a supportive family. Now, what’s the matter? Lately, some people badmouthed about me just because I have colorful hair and it keeps changing as I wish. What's wrong with people these days? Just because you have colorful hair, doesn’t mean you have no manner and brain.

They said my hair is not healthy, not looking good, some even said I’m like uneducated woman, one even compared my hair with cat hair in front of my friends, seriously I will never disgrace someone in public like that. Yeah some people just loved trying to bring me down with those silly comments. I won’t hate them for talking like that but seriously, sir, I don't know if you are just joking around, if it's for real...STOP! Mean words will kill people’s happiness. Your attitude is easy to know, yeah based by your words.