HOW TO RULE YOURSELF

6:25 PM

Nowadays I see many people like to bring others down and it became a habit, I don’t know how to explain this well but I’ve been feeling that “burdened" situation lately. They are trying to make my life to be more complicated.

It’s a very important message to me to get out of that kind of situation and I want to tell you that in this world you should be your own boss. Don’t let anybody tell you what you should and shouldn’t be doing or who you are. You are you, you know yourself better than anyone and you should decide your own choices like……..

“This is how I live my life and I am the happiest I’ve ever been”

Maybe I am still a college student and still don't have much experiences but I’m proud that I am doing exactly what I love, I have passion and I am grateful and every single day is amazing to me because I manage to rule myself.

And guess what? This post is dedicated to all of you who want to live freely without feeling the burdens in your hands.

1. Have your own pride and self-respect first

Always believe that you always deserve more than what you can possibly think of if you have respected yourself first before anyone can.

2. Work hard play harder

Work hard to complete all the challenges you have in your life, don't ever to try running for your responsibilities then you’re going to win back a freedom eventually, that’s a freedom for you to start playing harder.

3. Don’t ever lose hopes or being negative at all.

Life is all about having a balance, you all are special and God have made you for the gracious purposes in life, so don't let anyone/anything in life force you to go into darkness and bring you down in the end.

4. Accept and survive

No matter what situation you’re facing; failure in school or office, broken heart, broken home, weight problems, imperfect body shape & face, endless deadlines, packed schedules, past scars, illness, etc. Remember this, everything happens in life all existed to be valued, when you accept that with your big heart, I promise you'll survive.

5. Confidence is the key

Whatever you do, will only look great as long as you’re confident, never mind others think it doesn’t look great at all, once again you don’t live to only give a care to people’s opinions.

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Once in a while we need to follow what we really want rather than bothering our heart about people's subjective judgment. Rule your(own)self :)

Anyway, this outfit taken in October 2014, you could tell from why the heck I am still having my green ombre hair. Sorry! I almost forgot that I have all these photos on my laptop ;p

This post is for you guys who miss my #SRScampuslook post.

| What I Wore : AVENUE shoes / ICE watch / BUNGA necklace + ring / LONGCHAMP bag / EVA DONNA shirt |