9:38 AM

I can say that at this point I had a crisis of confidence, I don’t say that I don’t like it, because I’ve known (I mean should’ve known) that virtual people only can judge and people like me (to be precise: bloggers) are easily to attack. Yesterday, someone left his comments like he judged me I wanted to gain popularity because I posted my Snapchat video on my path account, seriously dude? If I want to be known by whole world why the heck I posted it on path where I only let certain people whom I know to be my friends on that account? Is it wrong to share video on path? And the thing you should know, that’s my account and I can post whatever I want to, if you don’t like my posts well just simply unshare me from your circle, I don’t even care tho.

I admit it we bloggers are so active on every social media we have (Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, Path, Snapchat, you name it) and it totally doesn’t rule out the possibility to get more hatred comments or criticism (we'll take it as the consequence). So, I tried with a clear mind learning to be willing to listen to others and be teachable.

We're not right about everything… nobody is. Stop being so mean my virtual gorgeous people <3

These are my favourite random drug-confidence I found and it’s very suitable for feeling a little more 'me' again after being attacked by some people who think they are just joking around (who knows if you're actually fckxxg serious) but dudes, it hurts my feeling sometimes if you knew it.
1. But I say to you, love your enemies & pray for those who persecute you.
-Matthew 5:44-

2. Give the world the best you have and the best will come back to you.
-Madeline Bridges-

3. I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls.
-Audrey Hepburn-
4. Life is tough, but you must be tougher.

5. Your value doesn't decrease based on someone's inability to see your worth.

6. Be more concerned with your character than your reputation.

7. Surround yourself with those who bring out the best in you, not the stress in you.
In terms of fashion, this is the third look (the last look) I created for my shoe collaboration work with PERSHOENALIZE (you can check the video below the post). I think this look suits for girl who is going to celebrate her first anniversary dinner with her bf. What do you think?

| What I Wore : PERSHOENALIZE (sponsored) shoes / CASIO watch / COLOR BOX bracelets / VIVAYOU outwear |
Photos by Alma Ciana



  1. I love the message you are relaying for other girls out there. and your hair color and jacket sort of match :)

  2. cantik!! itu rambut suka banget ih :)


  3. Don't let other people put you down. Go on and just be the gorgeous YOU! :)
    Good vibes Fox

  4. Nice outfit and hair!
    Yes, haters is gonna hate as always, the thing is how is our response to their judgement. Semangatttt!

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  5. love the blazer...

    kisses from dubai ♥

  6. your outfit looks so sweet and yet rebel. I admire it <3

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  7. Great post! When you put yourself out there the risk of getting a bit of hate is inevitable, you cant please everyone and you shouldn't try to because that's just boring, being individual and believing your self worth is all that matters, so I say fuck those people and keep doing what you doing cause you have fans that love it! xxx

  8. Love the whole outfit and I am jealous with your hair!
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    Qing's Style

  9. Love your green jacket dear.

    Kisses, Jennifer

  10. hope you're feeling better lovely and don't let others bring you down! fantastic shoes btw! <3

    Metallic Paws

  11. great photos hun!
    <3 don't let the strong wind blow you away ^_^ you can do this

    Lauren xx | laurlauu

  12. we have same story! but, i choose to not hear or ignore them. negativity is contagious, isn't it? i will erase their existence on my account even they are our friend. hehe....btw, your look always stunning! especially your ombre hair. IT'S SOMETHING, dear!


  13. Just ignore the haters, because they never have anything clever to say. You look lovely in these photos!


  14. hi babe! I hope you are doing well, can't wait to read a new blog post from you!! love ya!

  15. Hello Ollyvia, can I just say that you are an amazing, strong and courageous blogger! I am glad that you didn't sugarcoat a thing. If there will be haters in the future, just ignore them because your worth is far more than their hate. You're flying freely and they want to pull you so they can be higher, that's a law of life that we can't completely vanish. However, we bloggers are blogging not to brag, not to be famous, not to show-off, not to be higher than anyone else but because WE HAVE A VOICE and WE WANT TO HAVE OUR OWN PLATFORM to be our CREATIVE OUTLET and TO RAISE AWARENESS, PROVIDE VALID & HELPFUL INFORMATION and SHARE FUN in an equally crowded world of web. Smile and know that as much as there are people hating, there will always be people loving.

    with love, RAYA

    instagram: https://instagram.com/theraysofraya/

  16. Love the unusualness of that jacket - particularly with your hair!

    Krissie x - http://pearlsofstyle.blogspot.com


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